"I Believe that Self-Awareness is the Greatest Gift we can give to the Next Generation."
Wendy Jones, Founder of Be Better Life
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At Be Better, our mission is to empower coaches with personalized coaching strategies that bridge the gap between tradition and the evolving needs of today’s athletes. We are dedicated to helping coaches connect more deeply with their players, fostering environments where athletes can thrive both on and off the court. Through innovative approaches rooted in self-awareness and Human Design, we aim to unlock the highest potential within every coach and athlete, building resilient, motivated, and successful teams that excel in sport and in life.Our Approach
What is Human Design?
Human Design is a comprehensive system that blends ancient wisdom with modern science to offer a detailed blueprint of your personality, strengths, and challenges. Developed by Ra Uru Hu in 1987, Human Design synthesizes principles from several disciplines, including:
- Astrology: Understanding cosmic influences based on your birth time and location.
- I Ching: The Chinese system of divination that offers insights into your behavior and decision-making patterns.
- Kabbalah: The mystical interpretation of the Torah, which helps in understanding the human experience.
- Chakras: The energy centers in the body, each governing different aspects of your life and personality.
- Quantum Physics: Offering a scientific perspective on how energy and consciousness shape your reality.
The core of Human Design lies in its ability to map out your unique energetic configuration, called your "BodyGraph." This chart reveals your strengths, decision-making strategies, and how you interact with others. The BodyGraph is created using your birth data, and it’s divided into nine centers, each representing different aspects of your life (e.g., communication, identity, willpower).
The Science Behind Human Design
Human Design combines several scientific and esoteric principles to create a holistic understanding of human behavior. Here’s how each component contributes:
Quantum Physics: The idea that we are all energy and that our thoughts, emotions, and interactions are influenced by unseen energetic forces is central to Human Design. It suggests that each person emits a unique frequency, which can be understood through the BodyGraph.
Genetic Code: Human Design is often described as a "genetic blueprint" because it taps into your inherent strengths and challenges, much like how DNA determines your physical traits. The system posits that we have an energetic DNA that influences how we think, feel, and behave.
Biochemistry: The centers in the BodyGraph correspond to the endocrine system and other physiological functions, linking your energy centers to your physical and emotional well-being.
The Philosophy Behind Human Design
The philosophy of Human Design is rooted in the idea that each person is unique and has a specific purpose in life. It rejects the notion of a one-size-fits-all approach to personal development and instead encourages individuals to embrace their true nature. The system promotes living in alignment with your authentic self, which leads to greater fulfillment, success, and harmony in life.
Human Design teaches that by understanding your innate tendencies, you can make decisions that are more aligned with your true self, rather than being influenced by external pressures or conditioning. This alignment with your design is believed to lead to a life of greater ease, reduced resistance, and more meaningful connections with others.
How Human Design Applies to Coaching
In the context of coaching, Human Design offers a powerful framework for understanding both the coach and the athletes. By knowing your design, you can tailor your coaching approach to leverage your strengths and connect more authentically with your athletes.
1. Understanding the Coach’s Design:
- Self-Awareness: Human Design helps coaches gain deep self-awareness, understanding how they naturally lead, communicate, and make decisions. This self-awareness allows coaches to operate from a place of authenticity, which is crucial for building trust with athletes.
- Decision-Making: Coaches can use Human Design to make decisions that are more aligned with their true nature, whether it’s setting team strategies, managing conflicts, or motivating athletes.
- Energy Management: By understanding their own energy centers, coaches can better manage their energy, avoiding burnout and maintaining a high level of engagement with their team.
2. Understanding the Athlete’s Design:
- Tailored Coaching: Human Design provides insights into each athlete’s unique strengths, challenges, and communication styles. Coaches can use this information to create personalized coaching plans that resonate with each athlete.
- Enhanced Communication: Knowing an athlete’s design can help coaches communicate more effectively, using language and strategies that align with the athlete’s natural tendencies.
- Building Team Dynamics: Coaches can use Human Design to understand the dynamics within the team, identifying potential areas of synergy or conflict. This allows for more intentional team-building efforts and improved overall performance.
The Benefits of Using Human Design in Coaching
- Increased Effectiveness: Coaching in alignment with your Human Design leads to more effective outcomes, as your strategies are rooted in your natural strengths and the needs of your athletes.
- Authentic Connections: When both the coach and athletes operate from a place of authenticity, trust and mutual respect grow, leading to stronger relationships and better team cohesion.
- Personal Growth: Both coaches and athletes benefit from the self-discovery process inherent in Human Design, leading to personal growth and development beyond the athletic field.
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Meet Wendy
Be Better Life Coach/Founder of Be Better Life & Media
Hi there! I'm Wendy, a proud mother of four, a dedicated writer, and the founder of Be Better Life. I'm fueled by a profound passion for holistic well-being, generational healing, sustainable high performance, and the power of genuine human connections.
As a lifelong learner, I firmly believe that nurturing our self-awareness is our most valuable gift to future generations. My purpose isn't to chase perfection but to continuously evolve, embracing the journey of becoming a better version of myself daily.
Meet Ashley
Human Design Coaching Strategist & Volleyball Coach
Hi! I'm Ashley, and I'm so excited you are here! When I first discovered Human Design, I felt seen for the first time in my adult-life. I started to understand more about my life experiences and I learned what it means to be a Splenic Projector with a 2/4 profile.
I have a B.A. in Liberal Studies with a concentration in Mathematics from CSU Dominguez Hills, where I also competed as a NCAA Division II student-athlete in both indoor volleyball and track and field. Additionally, I hold a M.A. in Coaching and Athletic Administration from Concordia University Irvine.
As your Human Design Coach, I bring an extensive background in self-awareness, leadership, coaching, education, and overall organization and management techniques that I've acquired through education, work, and life experiences.
As a coach on and off the court, Ashley believes in providing her clients with transparent communication through probing questions that encourage and empower you to explore your human design and how to use it to be the best coach you can be for yourself and your athletes.
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